Break Free from Force-Based Work

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The Rhythms of Focus Podcast

Rhythms of Focus is a mindfulness-based productivity podcast for those with wandering minds, ADHD, and beyond who seek a gentler approach to mastery and meaningful work.

When a language app starts running your day instead of helping you learn, something vital is off. In this episode of Rhythms of Focus, we explore what really helps a wandering mind learn—and where streaks, scores, and mascots quietly get in the way.We look at why traditional metrics like lesson completion and streak counts so…
In today’s episode of Rhythms of Focus, we how motivation can seem to slip away when someone else’s “should” enters the equation. Why do wandering minds rebel against orders? How does honoring our unique mental rhythms restore our sense of agency, especially when ADHD shapes our day to day. Takeaways: Recognize the subtle ways internalized…
In this episode of ‘Rhythms of Focus,’ listeners explore the concept of ‘trip wires’ as a tool for mindfulness and task management. Discover how to set effective reminders for your future self and understand the phenomenon of ‘Sticky Decor Decay,’ where unaddressed reminders blend into the background over time. Learn actionable strategies to prevent task…
Discover eight distinct “gears” of focus—stages we moves through, from simply being, to considering, approaching, and ultimately performing at our best. Honoring each gear transforms frustration and procrastination into creative flow and agency. Drawing parallels to music, emotional waves, and mindful play, this episode invites listeners to see hard work not as a battle, but…
In this episode of “Rhythms of Focus,” we consider distraction and stimulation. When our minds wander and the pull of the phone grows strong, we search for stimulation is actually a longing for real meaning and energy in what we do. Explore how our emotions shape the way we focus and why boredom so often…
Feeling stuck—where even the simplest task feels too heavy to lift? In this episode, instead of chasing rigid productivity, listeners will discover the subtle art of finding ease within challenge, tuning into the rhythms of play, and learning how to gently move forward even when motivation wanes. Listeners will learn: How play, frustration, and challenge…
Discover why your latest app or productivity hack is not the real hero—or the real challenge. In this episode of “Rhythms of Focus,” we explore what truly lies beneath those endless quests for the perfect system, shining a compassionate light on wandering minds and ADHD. Listeners will uncover how recognizing and respecting four key limits—time,…
Break free from the tyranny of the unbroken streak—what if focus meant something deeper than chasing another checkmark? This episode of Rhythms of Focus invites wandering minds and adults with ADHD to let go of the pressure to “never miss a day,” discovering a kinder, rhythm-based approach to meaningful growth. In this episode, explore: –…
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Uncover a revolutionary approach to managing ADHD and wandering minds in this episode of ‘Rhythms of Focus.’ Discover the ‘Waves of Focus,’ a comprehensive guide designed to transition you from force-based productivity to trust-based agency. Delve into key concepts such as the anchor, visit, and visit guide. Understand how to create a meaningful, rhythm-oriented life…

About the Author

Contact: wander at rhythmsoffocus.com

Kourosh Dini, MD is a board-certified psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, author, and musician.

He has created a course and community for those struggling with ADHD and other “wandering minds”, i.e. those struggling with managing their work and where they’d like their minds to be. He has also written several books and courses.

His years of musicianship and writing would tap into the same needs with which many with ADHD struggle, the need to find play and be creative in the day. Meanwhile, making it through medical school and building a practice, managing a family and generally connecting with responsibility would of course all need addressing.

Through the years of working with both clients and himself, Dr. Dini has been able to craft methods of moving away from the common fear-based methods of arranging work to those that are more based on creativity.

Dr. Dini currently maintains a psychiatric and therapy-based private practice in Chicago, IL

Education includes:

  • Northwestern University – Integrated Science Program, BA
  • Northwestern University – Neuroscience
  • University of Illinois at Chicago Medical School
  • University of Illinois at Chicago – Adult Psychiatry Residency
  • University of Chicago – Child and Adolescent Psychiatry Fellowship
  • Chicago Psychoanalytic Institute – Psychoanalytic Training